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Sep. 15th, 2005 | 12:10 pm
mood: contemplative contemplative
posted by: hugsrus11 in planned_gf_hood

my friend ryan is a sweet, funny, crazy guy. he's about half a year older than me. and he's never had a gf. this is part of the reason he's good for me. he's as innocent as me, slightly more... as i've had five bfs so far. i don't know how everything is going to work out, but right now we are just friends and plan on staying such until we know whether or not it would be smart to risk ruining a good friendship. i really like him a lot. the only thing that bugs me is his height which is a little shorter than me. lol. i just need to figure out how to act around someone i like and am not dating!

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sara_super_id

From: sara_super_id
Date: Sep. 15th, 2005 07:40 pm (UTC)
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Well that is complicated. I went through a similar battle earlier this month. Basically what I found was that flirting and complimenting is appropriate. Remind them from time to time that you like them and want to date them when the time is right. Setting a goal date is a good idea, "we will try to start dating in (x) month"

I ended up deciding I didn't want to date the person, because certian obvious things made us not compatible. A waiting period is a really good idea!

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From: hugsrus11
Date: Sep. 16th, 2005 02:02 am (UTC)
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well. there is no set goal for dating. we plan on hanging out as friends and seeing if we want to ever take it further. and since both him and i are both flirts... hehe. i think it'll be fun.

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